You've got your ticket. Now what do you actually bring? Whether it's your first time or your fiftieth, knowing what to pack can make or break your night.
So you've got your ticket to your first play party — or maybe you're a seasoned pro looking to level up your game. Either way, knowing what to bring can make or break your experience.
The Non-Negotiables: Safety & Hygiene First
Protection & Safer Sex Supplies: Condoms (bring more than you think you'll need — different sizes, textures, materials). Dental dams or latex barriers for oral play. Lube, lube, and more lube — water-based is safest for condoms and toys. Gloves: latex or nitrile gloves are perfect for manual play.
Personal Hygiene Must-Haves: Baby wipes or intimate wipes. Hand sanitizer. Breath mints or spray. Deodorant (travel-size). Small towel or washcloth.
Wardrobe Essentials: Dress to Impress (and Undress)
Your statement outfit — lingerie, leather, latex, lace — whatever makes you feel like the hottest version of yourself. Easy-to-remove layers: robes, wraps, or button-ups. Comfortable shoes — bring flats or slippers as backup. A change of clothes for the ride home. Robe or cover-up.
Accessories That Elevate: Jewelry or body chains. Masks or blindfolds. Collar or choker.
Playtime Extras: Bring Your Own Fun
Your favorite toy (charged and clean). Impact play tools (paddles, floggers, crops) — always negotiate consent before use. Restraints: silk scarves, cuffs, or rope — bring safety scissors. Sensation play items: feathers, warming oils, massage candles.
The Practical Stuff
A discreet, sturdy bag (backpack, tote, or gym bag). Ziplock bags for organization. Small lock for lockers if available. Fully charged phone and portable charger. Cash for tips, coat check, or cash bar. Any medications you need. Water bottle. Snacks (protein bars, trail mix — eat before you arrive).
What NOT to Bring
Drugs or illegal substances. Weapons. Judgment or bad vibes. Rigid expectations.
Final Tips
Pack the night before so you're not rushing. Know the venue rules before you go. Communicate with your partner(s) about the plan. Plan your transportation home. Set your intentions for the night — it changes everything.
Written by
Miss Zuri
Naughty Nytes NYC
